How to feel confident in a relationship

This article was written by M.Farouk Radwan The founder of www.2knowmyself.com a website that got 9,000,000 Visits so far.

How to feel confident in a relationship

If you want to feel confident in a relationship then the first thing you should do is to ask yourself the question, did i get in a relationship just to feel confident?

lets suppose that you were very thirsty, will eating a lot of food remove your feelings of thirst? this might sound like an odd question but when examining the way most people behave you will discover that lots of them try to fix problems but doing something completely unrelated.

Lots of men and women who don't feel confident get into a relationship just to feel confident about themselves!! of course when you ask such a people why did they get into their relationships they will reply saying that they love their partners but when you examine the situation deeply you will find that they love them because they make them feel worthy!!

in short if you are trying to cure the lack of self confidence by trying to feel confident in a relationship then this will never work!.

The problem with depending on others to feel confident

find out why you lack self confidence and fix that thing instead of depending on someone else to make you feel worthy. The problem with depending on someone else to feel worthy is that you will lose your self confidence as soon as the person treats you differently.

As soon as your partner treats you differently or badly you will find yourself lacking confidence in the relationship and you might start to question your own worth.

Unless you believe that you are worthy then getting into hundreds of relationships wont help you at all.

Feeling confident in an abusive relationship

Sounds like a strange title and yes it is because no one can feel confident in an abusive relationship. Some people keep putting their partners down, criticizing them all the time and blaming them for each mistake they make.

Some people do things that are even worse like trying to intentionally make their partners feel that they are worthless. You can never feel confident in an abusive relationship and that's why you must be very strict with your partner if he threatned your self worth.

Give him a warning, a second warning and a third one but if he continued affecting your self confidence badly then tell him that unless he respects you and makes you feel good about yourself you won't be able to continue the relationship with him.

Don't let go of your rights

Even if your partner isn't abusive he might step on your rights without intention and thus make you feel unimportant. In order to feel confident in a relationship then make sure you preserve your rights and that you mention them gently to your partner whenever he needs to be reminded of them.

Finally, self confidence is all about believing that you worthy and special, if you were continuously exposed to someone who makes you feel otherwise you might start to have self doubts and feel less confident.

In the Solid Confidence program i won't only teach you how to have a solid self confidence but i will also have to feel confident in a relationship. if your self confidence levels weren't affected by the program you will get your money back.

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